The illusivefish-interview

Name: Nick Hunter

Band name: Theillusivefish 

Is that a meaning to the band name? 

The name is a username I created when I was 12 (20 years ago), I’ve used it in various forms over the years and my Instagram was one of them when I set it up. It’s a combination of me trying to be cool and trying to own the fact some of the kids at school called me “fish lips” 

How long have you been playing?

 I first picked up a bass when I was about 12/13 


What music means to you? 

Freedom and a way to send a message and connect with people, and just a way to have a damn good time.


In one of the songs you say is something that I need to do, is that a meaning to that? Like a purpose? 

I’ve never really been able to get away from the fact that fundamentally I want to be a gigging and touring musician playing my own songs. It’s like this thing inside me I have to feed. I can’t not do this. I also want to use my music as a platform to support others and bring other artists up of I ever get that far, give other musicians the opportunities I wish I could have now. For example, if I’m ever able to do a headline tour I would want the opening act to be an unheard band I’ve come across and like to put them in front of as many people as possible.


What are some of your favorite bands that have most influence in your songs? 

I like a lot of bands and artists but if I had to make a short list, Jamie Lenman, Tool, Porcupine Tree, Muse, Nirvana, system of a down, David Bowie. 

What touches your soul?

Other showing others kindness and wanting nothing for it. Be it to/from animals or people.

Where can we find your songs? 

Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon music.


Anything you would like to add? 

I have a gig in London 23rd sept, details on my Instagram and various other social media platforms! Also looking for any gigs in London/kent/East Sussex areas! 

Interview with Darth Rirou

Fatherhood Rocks: So, you just made your very first record, how does it feel?

Darth Rirou: Wonderful because it is literally a dream come true. A childhood dream.

FR:A childhood dream, what do you mean by that? 

DR: Yes, it is kind of a long story but learning how to rock and make music was a dream of mine since I was 7 years old. Never had the balls to pursue. I mean I had a band in high school but nothing serious. 

FR: Who is this album for? 

DR: Well, it’s for kids from around the ages of 5 to 12. For me those are the ages that usually shape your purpose in life. Especially 9, 10, 12 years old things really start to change. Was right around that time my depression started to kick in. This album is also for any adult healing their inner child, I mean I believe is great for anyone working on their traumas and fears. Certainly it is for me. 

FR: Why are you a myth?

DR: Well first when I left the Royal Caribbean cruise some friends of friends in Brasil were saying I jumped from the boat and swam to shore, in order to escape. Second we gonna find out on halloween 2021 *laughs*

FR: What are the songs about?

DR: Everysong has a meaning but the whole album is inspired by my kids and what I want to pass on to them.

FR: What was the hardest part?

DR: Facing my fears and hearing myself. It’s always weird at first. 

FR: A music inspiration for you? 

DR:Lemmy Kilmister, in fact the idea of Rock-it-ology comes from his song… “Rock it… it ain’t no crime.”

Ulysses and the music meaning and mystery project.

Name: Ulysses Jason Newcomb
Age: 43

Rock-it-ology: How did you start in music?

Ulysses: My brother played guitar and I thought it was pretty cool. When I turned 15 years old, I got a strong urge to learn. So I got a very beat up and broken guitar and insisted my father teach me a few chords and then asked my brother to teach me a few more. I was obsessed with learning different guitar things. Whenever my brother would come around the house I’d hound him to learn things. I also found an old music book called “Great Songs of the Sixties”. It had chord diagrams in it and I asked some friends and we figured out how they worked. Even though I had never heard those songs before, I played them the way I thought they were supposed to go. I learned many chords this way. I didn’t understand the theory behind the chords. But I could understand the feelings they made me feel.

R: How long you been doing music?

U: For 28 years. There have a been a few sabbaticals but pretty much the whole time I played everyday.

R: What music means to you?

U: I interface with music like I do a place. Each piece of music, each moment of music is like square footage in a land that one can travel to with music. Music theory: scales, time signatures, modes etc. These are all a technique for mapping a place. But the map is not the territory. The territory is the territory. When I play music, I see places that are alive and have a story to tell. A beach on a summer day with a stormhead in the distance. Solar systems orbiting around a sun that serves as the house of a flesh monster. Deep mines where men go at night to frolic with fairies and devils. Always places. I don’t sit down to “write” these places. I make the sounds and then eventually, I see the places and the stories. Music is a means of going to these places, or perhaps music is those places. That’s what music means to me.

R: Have music helped you in any way type or form?

U: The ancient Gnostics believed this whole world was a prison and that the goal of life was to liberate one’s self. I don’t know if that is an ultimate truth but I know there are all sorts of prisons in life. And I was definitely in a figurative one for many years. Maximum security. It took many years and a lot of hardship but music in part was used for my escape. I’m grateful for this. 

R: I know that I participated in your podcast, but can you tell us more about your project?

U: A few years ago my band broke up and I was heartbroken about it. It was a band that was in near-perfect alignment with my long time dream of music. We were extraordinarily innovative and bold. We just did not care about anything except just going as far as possible in music. We were working on a 3rd album and it was going very well. I had visions of all sorts of amazing places to visit. But it sadly was not to be. I knew I had to continue with music but to just return to my solo career seemed very hollow after being in a such an adventurous band. I really didn’t feel like going back to scratching on my guitar by myself. Then all my gear was stolen. Since the sound of the band was dependent on the specific members of the band (the gear being like a band member), there was no way the 3rd album was going to be made.

I found all this very difficult and it hurt. But it also highlighted I didn’t know why this was all so important to me.  If it weren’t for some earthly obligations, I would have been willing to go hungry to get that third album made. But I didn’t even understand why? I decided that instead of going back to playing music that I would write a book about it instead, to try to answer these difficult questions. I do have some music personal music projects that I work on but I don’t expect to play for public consumption very much. I want to write this book as a legacy to leave behind after I’m done earth life. And as you know, part of this book writing project is the podcast where I speak to musicians and their relationship to music.

R: What touches your soul?

U: Geez, you ask all the easy question eh? Haha! I have been thinking about the soul. I don’t know what it is but I think it has something to do with the “self” that is at the very bottom of all the selves. When I close my eyes to meditate I can feel and hear all the different selves that I am. I’m the self that is hungry and wants a sandwich, the self worried about retirement, the self that is lonely, the self that is excited about a project, the self that tells me I’m good, the other that tells me I’m not and so on and so on. I listen to all these selves and acknowledge them. And if it’s a good day, slowly they become quiet from being satisfied for having been heard. Then finally after some time there is someone there that is perfect, still and quiet. Maybe that’s the soul. 

I think it is stillness, quiet, tranquility and silence that touches my soul. 

R: An example on how not to be an asshole? 

U: Do not lie.

Check out Ulysses project at

and his channel.



Radio Rejects – 2

Rock-it-ology: Hey Josh, it’s been a while since our last interview, tell us what you been up to?

G’day! Since the last time we had a chin wag, we’ve been busy writing new songs for the album aswell as having a ball making some fun clips. Of course COVID made alot of band activity hard, and having Mik our guitarist live at the other end of the country, it was hard to get alot done but somehow we made it work

Rock-it-ology: How many songs radio reject have it out? 

At the present time we have 5 singles out on all streaming platforms

Where you can find them? 

Places like Spotify, YouTube music, Google Music, apple music and some of the smaller sites people dig

Rock-it-ology: Now, why you decided to play punk rock? 

I was a late bloomer. I actually didn’t start music til after high school , I failed music all through school. Then one day picked up a mates bass and started playing stuff that sounded good.

Couple of years down the track I’d self taught myself bass, guitar, drums and keyboard all by ear haha

Playing gigs always takes me to my happy place haha

Rock-it-ology: I read in an interview that you did, that you started this whole thing because you were bullied, is that right? Can you explain more about it? 

I was bullied alot as a kid. Kids can be cruel. Even though I was bigger than most kids I would sit there and take it as I just wanted to have friends. It got to a point where I “grew” my own little persona of not giving a fuck anymore. Ironically enough this made me come off as stubborn and arrogant, when really I was shy and didn’t know how to interact with people.

This was the basis of the song “Monster’s” that we released.

Rock-it-ology: Who makes your awesome videos? 

Haha thanks, Ive made the last couple with more in the works. I’ve always wanted to write and make movies. I bought a camera and gave it a go. I love doing It and hope to help more bands out there get theirs done too 

Rock-it-ology: How can people support your band? Anything you like to add? 

We are on all the main social medias like Facebook and Instagram.

We are proud of what we do and like I’ve always said if I can get 1 person leaving a show with a tune id written stuck in their head, then my job is done!

To truly support the band you can go to our Bandcamp where all the money people pay actually comes to us ..

Our past record label has yet to swing a single cent our way, pushing us to leave and go our own path!

Thanks for the chat and we love the passion you have for you , the music and your family brother!

Check out their new song!


In the winter of 2019 we Federico aka Principessa – Drums, Daniele – Bass/Vocal and Tommy – Guitar got together due to working together as stage hand and yard work in general. The love for punk rock brought them to do a rehearsal room and they decided start the band. After a year Ernest joined them with his guitar and pedal effect .The band is based in Venice – Italy. After two/three years of practice they were ready to play play live but because COVID-19 pandemic shows got cancelled. Their first record is out with 200 copies sold so far. They are the Indespensabili and they contacted me and sent me their songs. After a little bit of talk, one of the members told me that Dad have introduced with the Offspring Album conspiracy of one. Well, I didn’t think twice with that and decided to do this interview.

We are Indispensabili Drums – Ruben aka Principessa

Bass/Voice – Sig. Tost

Guitar – Erbest Don Pedale

Guitar/Lawnmower – Tommy 

Rock-it-ology: How long you all have been playing? 

Indispensabili started actually without Erbest, he was had one year time to find us for star play togheter… that time was the 2019 more or less. 

Rock-it-ology: How music have helped you? 

Music is everything, without you can be lost. The cool thing is that you can push up the amply volume and sing loud. 

Rock-it-ology: What touches your soul? 

Many things… but for sure the Ramones its one of them. 

Rock-it-ology: Top 5 favorite songs? 

Ramones – Bad brain – Misfits – Where eagles dare Queers – You re tripping River dales – Mentally retardedI Fichissimi – La tipa della casa occupata 

Rock-it-ology: An example on how not to be an asshole? 

Bring guitar picks and cables to the rehearsal room for example. 

How can we support the band? 

Listen to our music first, second when will be back time for concert of course buy to us a beer will be great. 

Check out their songs at my favorite song is Burger King, maybe because I worked at Wendy’s before.

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